Wednesday, 17 July 2013
Yes it's me ! Again!!!
I'm here to give you a bit of fuel for the journey. Most of us are changing or enhancing some aspect of our personality or character each day with envisioning becoming better. It's not you that don't want to change it's just that most of us are connected to some people that can't just shut the hell up about who we use to be. Let me encourage you, the only people who will continue to talk about your past are people who don't have the guts to do what you are (changing), people who were always envious and jealous of you and the new you has helped manifest the true intent of their heart, and plain ole people who just have nothing to do but be agents of destruction.
Remember, everyone will not be pleased about your progress but DO NOT let that hinder, frustrate or stop you. You will succeed and you will be victorious! I believe in you.
Let the talkers TALK thats all they may ever do in life.
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Saturday, 13 July 2013
Every Successful venture starts with a plan.
WHATS THE PLAN????
"The future to your success lies in your daily routine."
-Mike Murdock (i think, LOL)
Here to remind you that in order to see results you MUST plan & execute.
Create a visual, a schedule of the things you want to do daily that will produce the success.
What ever it is you want to achieve you have to be consistent in it and a schedule is one way to help you stay committed.
Every strong building, has a firm foundation. Your schedule is the foundation of your house. When the foundation in a house is not STABLE it's only a matter of time that the whole structure falls apart.
What is it that you want to commit to that will improve your overall development? Maybe it's your studies, spiritual life or health. These are the things you would want to center activities around and incorporate on a schedule.
My schedule compromises of my mornings starting with my devotions with my kids, then progress to breakfast with my kids where we further chat and get to hear each others personalities. My blogs and network page is the climax of my schedule & where I spend most of my time. Each day on my schedule has something different until my week allots time to the things I value most which is my external relationships & family, my passion & work (YOU), my health and MOST importantly God.
In essence people should be able to view your weekly routine and see your vision and whats important to you. On your way to success, remember: exact a plan and commit. People will commit to you when they see YOU commit to YOU.
Stay Tuned for more.................
Friday, 12 July 2013
Reformation is a challenging experience for any woman coming for a debase or adverse past. On your way to a NEW YOU, you must believe that the results you want CAN happen.. Stay consistent and committed to your change. No matter how many mistakes you make or relapses you have keep pressing toward your goal.
Here are a few factors that are crucial in helping you achieve this goal of a New You
1. Let go of your past:
You must be willing to let go of the things that turned you into this unwanted personality. It may be friends, certain environments and abusive situations. Look in the mirror and say to yourself: "today is the day I become a NEW woman, I'm on my way to greatness". Forgive the people that have disappointed you, abused and misused you and even misguided you. You may have been molested, raped or battered, but you DON'T have to be a sum total of the environment you that your were subjected to.
2. Know who you want to become & be mentored:
There are lots of fore runners, women and men that leaped from abstract poverty and adverse situations that can help you. The question is "who am I now?" the answer may be harsh but guess what it will help you to know who you want to become. You may be loud, promiscuous, lazy, untidy or just idle with no sense of direction. You may be a crowd follower, hiding your potentials just to fit in. Form an identity. Write a list of what it is that you can improve and want to change, then seek out a mentor to help you. Study successful people and pattern after them.
3.Meet new people, make meaningful friends:
There are always insightful meaningful events going on in the community, they are constantly blasted over the social medias. Get a nice classy outfit or if you have to borrow something from a friend. Invest in events that will bring you into the circles that are conducive to the change you want to see. Make yourself acquainted, strike up a conversation exchange contacts. You will be surprise to know how a different flavor and class of people will broaden your mindset and stimulate your passions. If you want a new mind you need new conversations. The friends that had you idle and making no sense at all will have to take shelf for awhile until you are built up and strong enough to impact them. Assure that the people around you can keep you accountable, there's an old saying in The Bahamas that's goes.."take your business to Jesus, he won't tell anyone", but we know God gives us good connections for the purpose of accountability, be sure that your confidant is mature and focused and wants to see your success.
Stay tuned into this blog for more tips...On my way to success I want you to succeed as well.
Have a Lovely Day!